I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of phudi marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years.
Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work.
We are only engaged and as much as I love him, I can't handle the pain of watching my goals and dreams wash away to be at his disposal. In some cases you can just simply live together with differing religions.
And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids.